Saturday, October 31, 2009

Happy Halloween!


Cheers to you with some witches brew...courtesy of Mistress Martha.

Just for grown-up goblins: Serve up a little black magic -- in the form of cocktails made with vodka that's as dark as night.

Ghost in the Graveyard
Serves 1
2 ounces black vodka
2 ounces creme de cacao or coffee-flavored liqueur
1 scoop vanilla ice cream
Pinch of finely grated nutmeg, for garnish

In a glass, combine vodka and creme de cacao, and set aside. Place a scoop of ice cream in a highball glass, and slowly pour vodka mixture over ice cream. Garnish with nutmeg; serve immediately.

Screwed-Up Screwdriver
Serves 1
1/4 cup ice
1/2 cup freshly squeezed tangerine juice
1 1/2 ounces black vodka
1 black licorice twist, for serving

Place ice in a tall glass. Pour juice into glass. Pour vodka over the back of a cocktail spoon into glass so it sits on top of juice and creates a layer of black. Slice 1/4 inch off each end of licorice, and use as a straw. Serve immediately.

Berry Scary Martini
Serves 1
1 cup ice
1 ounce black vodka
2 ounces cherry juice
Fresh raspberries and blueberries, for garnish

Combine ice, vodka, and cherry juice in a cocktail shaker; shake vigorously. Pour into a martini glass. Thread raspberries and blueberries onto a cocktail skewer, and place in drink. Serve immediately.


Tell your designated driver to drive alertly.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Cheap 'N Easy Last Minute Halloween Costume Ideas

photo courtesy halloweentips.net



Okay, so the comic girl in the photo above might take more than a minute to create, but she's so cool I had to add her!


Here are the cheap 'n easy costumes...


* Wrap yourself in some (or all) aluminum foil. What are you? A baked potato!


* Wear all black and put a postage stamp (enlarged if possible) on your chest. What are you? Black mail.


* Get a small weight (e.g. dumbbell) and stare at it intently. What are you? Watching your weight.


* Draw the letter P around the child's eyes. What are you? "Black-Eyed-Peas". Be careful to use safe ink!!!!


* Quarter (or preferably enlarged photocopy of one) taped to your back. What are you? A quarter-back.


* Carry a quarter and a hammer. What are you? A Quarter-pounder.


* Put a pot on your head. What are you? A pot head.


* Affix one couch cushion to the front of you and one to the back. What are you? The lost TV remote.


* Wear all white. Attach (or paint) yellow circle to your stomach. You are an egg. Add horns and a pitchfork and you are a deviled egg.


* Paint one finger gold. What are you? Gold finger.


* Dress normally. Pin some socks, dryer sheets, hand towels to your shirt. Static cling.


* Wear extra-large bra over your clothes. Stuff with spices. What are you? A spice rack.


* Put a sign that says "Go Ceilings!!!!" on your shirt. What are you? A Ceiling Fan! Cheer to help the effect.


* For those times you don't want to go: say you're going as a cable-guy - since they never show up.


http://www.halloween.com/halloween-costume-quick-ideas.php

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Free Coupons From Yowza!!




How cool is this...


Free paperless coupons on your iPhone or iTouch that you can use at hundreds of stores and restaurants nationwide!


It's an free app called Yowza!!


No clipping. No stashing coupons in your wallet or purse. No need to remember which location that restaurant coupon was good for. Yowza!! takes the hassle and guesswork out of saving money.


How It Works

Yowza!! is savings in your pocket—literally. You spent a pretty penny on your iPhone or iPod touch to own the very best, but that doesn't mean you want to spend more than you absolutely have to on anything else.


Yowza!! Mobile Coupons are here to help you out with that no matter where you are or what you need.


You'll find deals on everything from a nice, new outfit to a lovely, delicious dinner.


Load Yowza!! on your iPhone or iPod touch and, as soon as you launch it, it goes to work finding coupons and deals in your geographic area—from as close as within a mile of you or as far as 50 miles away.


Deals you can cash in right here, right now! Choose one of the offers and visit the store. When you walk up to the cashier, just show the Yowza!! deal on your device and let them scan the barcode. That's it—you just saved money!!


Yowza!! Features


  • Because it's location-based, Yowza!! finds deals and coupons right near you
  • Push Notifications let you know when your favorite stores have added a new deal or coupon
  • Nothing to print out. Just show the coupon on your iPhone to the cashier
  • No paper or ink means that Yowza!! is environmentally friendly
  • Handy maps show you just how close money-saving deals are
  • Track your savings to see how much money Yowza!! has put in your piggy bank

It's fairly new, so there are more coupons in larger cities, but it's a free app, so why not jump in now and watch it grow as more and more companies join.

http://getyowza.com/

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Attracting and Enhancing Love with Feng Shui


As a follow up to my appearance on That Morning Show on E! Entertainment today, I want to share some additional details for Attracting and Enhancing Love with Feng Shui.


The first step is to use the Bagua Energy Map to locate the Love & Relationship Area in your home.


How does that work? First sketch your floor plan. Then superimpose the map (found above) over your floor plan by aligning the bottom of the map along the line of your front floor. ‘Stretch’ the edges of the map to the top and sides of your floor plan.


The Love & Relationship Area will always be in the far right-hand corner from the front door, facing inward.


Next up, clear out the negative energy by removing clutter, keeping the area clean and ditching anything that is no longer serving you. So adios, left-overs from past partners! And no dried, crunchy, dead flowers...including bridal bouquets! Dried flowers represent death energy. Yikes.


Then add an item that represents your goals for a healthy relationship. Some of the items I talked about on the show include:

  • artwork or photo of a happy couple- no wedding picture with the bride alone!
  • matching pair of candle sticks
  • matching bookends
  • books about healthy relationships
  • a written list of the attributes you're looking for in a partner- you can hide it if you want

Here are some additional ideas. Hey, I only had a few minutes on the show to cover a huge subject! Try these items...

  • anything pink, the color of the Love Area- don't want pink items in your space? Hide pink paper behind other items
  • pairs of things- if the Love Area is in the kitchen, try matching salt & pepper shakers
  • art depicting swans or crane- they mate for life!

You don't have to add a bunch of Love items. One item placed with clear intentions will do the trick. Too many items and you could be fighting them off with a stick!


If you're single and looking for a new relationship, it's time to make room for love. Be sure to have room for your new partner by clearing a drawer or an area in the closet. It symbolically holds the space until they appear.


And no matter where the bedroom falls in the Bagua Energy Map, have two equal-sized bedside tables and two equal-sized bedside lamps for an equal, balanced relationship.


Check out the Feng Shui section on my website www.space-lift.com. There's a whole lotta info there!


Tuesday, October 27, 2009

I'm on That Morning Show!


Set your Tivo or DVR! I'm on That Morning Show on E! Entertainment Wednesday morning, Oct 28 from 6am to 9am EST. The subject? Finding Love with Feng Shui.

Check your local listings as here in LA it airs from 3am to 6am. So glad we taped it the day ahead so that I didn't have to shoot it at 3am!

That Morning Show is a 100% original positive alternative to normal morning programming. It's a fun, fresh show...sorta a hip version of the Today Show.

In the segment, I give lots of tips and ideas for attracting supportive love energy to your home. I think you'll like it!

Here's a link to my site with lots more Feng Shui information.

Where to Recycle


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Earth911.com is a fantastic website that helps you find recycling centers near you.

Just enter what it is you want to recycle & your zip code...and voila, Earth 911.com will give you a choice of the closest centers around you along with their address, phone number and distance from your house.

What could be easier?! It even lets you know where you can donate old computers.

But wait, there's more! Earth 911.com also has all kinds of fun tips and ideas. Check out the site now for Halloween costume and decorating tips. It will even tell you what to do with your Jack-O-Lantern once Halloween is over!

Monday, October 26, 2009

Clutter-Busting from The Happiness Project


The challenges that life hands us shape how we grow. However, it's up to us to choose our reactions to the challenges. We can choose to suffer because of the difficulties...or we can choose happiness.


Gretchen Rubin decided to choose happiness. In order to make it a habit, she started The Happiness Project, a daily blog that will soon be released as a book. I smell a best seller!


When I first heard about this on Huffington Post, it brought a huge smile to my face. Since my mom's name is Gretchen, I have an instant liking to other Gretchens. So a Gretchen who seeks and shares happiness gets two enthusiastic thumbs up from me.


The Happiness Project is already a hit. Before the ink has dried on the first printing, Happiness Project Groups are already popping up all around the world. Just what is it?


A “happiness project” is an approach to changing your life. First is the preparation stage, when you identify what brings you joy, satisfaction, and engagement, and also what brings you guilt, anger, boredom, and remorse. Second is the making of resolutions, when you identify the concrete actions that will boost your happiness. Then comes the interesting part: keeping your resolutions.


Here's a link to The Happiness Project blog. Trust me, you can get lost (or found!) in her essays.


As a Feng Shui consultant, I particularly appreciate her input on the subject of clutter. As you know from past posts, clutter is a big topic for me. After all, it's root word is 'to clot!' Yes, clutter clots your life.


Below is an excerpt of Gretchen's article on clutter. I think you'll enjoy it as I have.


Clutter-busting: Eight tips for preparing for a real (or virtual) move.

By Gretchen Rubin


Whether you’re really moving, or virtually moving, here are some questions to ask yourself, as you consider whether some particular piece of stuff is worth keeping. Remember, you have to be HONEST!


1. Do I actually use this?


2. If I get rid of this, and it turns out I need it, how hard will it be to replace?


3. How many of this object do I really need? E.g., how many coffee mugs do you actually use? Beware of what’s called the “maximum-use imperative” -- the fact that people will often buy or keep something to accommodate a use that they need only rarely (like a dining room table big enough to seat the whole family, who visits once every two years). Also, although you may be tempted to keep every usable rubber band or every packet of ketchup that comes into your house, if you’re never going to use them up, get rid of the excess.


4. Does this work properly? If not, get it fixed, give it away, or throw it away.


5. At this moment, do I know how to operate this thing?


6. Am I keeping a gift out of sentiment or politeness, even though I don't really like or need it?


7. Am I keeping something as a memento? That's ok, but pick your mementos wisely. Try to pick things that don’t take up too much room. You don’t need lots of mementos from the same period of time. You can take a picture of something if you just want the visual cue, but don’t really want to use the thing -- this is especially useful when the memento is large, say, your father's desk.


Most important...


8. When in doubt, throw it out! (or give it away).

Tip: I find it’s much easier for me to get rid of things when I can envision that my things will be better used by someone else. So, as you prepare for your real or virtual move, take the time to identify destinations for your stuff. Do you know a family who could use your hand-me-downs? A thrift store that accepts used toys? Would you post a notice so that someone who wanted something could come take it? Etc.



Good advice, right?


Here's a link to create your own Happiness Project.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Reusable Moving Boxes




Some people live in the same home for most of their lives. Not me. I've lost track of how many times I've moved. I've lived in Michigan, New York City and Los Angeles, twice each. At least seven apartments in Manhattan alone. That's a lot of cardboard boxes to pack and unpack...and then dispose of in a responsible manner.

I'm not alone in my moving habits. According to the US Census, approximately 43 million people move each year in the United States with the average mover using 60 cardboard boxes. That's a lot of wasted trees, not to mention oil used for production and needless land-filling.

Here are some wonderful solutions...

If you're planning a move anywhere in the greater San Francisco Bay Area, contact Zippgo.com

If you're planning a move anywhere in the Greater Los Angeles Area or Orange County, contact RentAGreenBox.com

Both are services that will deliver sturdy moving boxes made from 100% post consumer recycled plastic to your home about 1 week before your move and then pick them up from your new home 2 weeks later.

For less than the cost of purchasing new cardboard boxes from a moving store, you get sturdier boxes without the hassle pick-up or drop-off. And these boxes don't need tape! Love that.

The lifecycle of the boxes is about 400 uses. Then they're ground up, recycled into new boxes and it starts all over again!

Ok, so to recap: using a moving box rental service saves time, saves money and saves our environment. This decision's a no brainer.

http://zippgo.com/

http://earthfriendlymoving.com/greenbox/

Hopefully, this idea will be spreading across the country soon. Because with 43 million people moving annually, the need is definitely there.


Saturday, October 24, 2009

What's for Dinner?




Cooking at home is essential for today's downsized budget. But if you're like me, you've found it's easy to get stuck in a rut with only a few go-to dishes. So if you hear complaints about the lack of entree variety, if you're lost in a braincloud of menu ideas, or if you just want someone to take meal planning off your plate and instead fill it with tasty solutions, then this is for you.

Relish!
It's a weekly online menu planner aimed to help busy families put wonderful meals on the table every night. No sloppy casseroles or expensive kitchen blunders. Instead look for everyday food...with a gourmet twist.

Relish! was founded by Ann Bender and Karen Hutcherson, two busy Colorado mothers that found themselves in the what's for dinner trap. Both women love to cook but didn't have time to sift through cookbooks and magazines for evening meals and what's worse, found themselves at the grocery store several times per week.

Family dinners are becoming a thing of the past and they vowed to develop quick and easy dinner ideas. Whether you're empty-nesters or a hectic family...a healthy, good-tasting dinner shouldn't be out of reach and this is where the Relish! story begins.

If you have a goal of getting organized and enjoying the dinner hour rather than dreading it. If utilizing fresh and healthy ingredients appeals to you and if you want to instill good eating habits with your children...then give the Relish! a try. You'll never go back to your old ways. Guaranteed.

One of the best aspects of Relish! is the stringent meal testing program. Master cook and epicurious foodie extraordinare Gwenn Wilson offers her wisdom and shortcuts to assure that every meal is uncomplicated, delicious and simply gourmet.

Relish offers the plan to get you out of your dinner rut for good and to prepare healthy and creative dinners, every night. You choose your weekly recipes, the grocery list is tabulated, shop once a week and have all of the ingredients needed for five meals. [View a menu]

  • Each week you choose five entrees to make for the week.

  • All dinners are kitchen-tested (no more disasters) and take 30 minutes or less prep.

  • The comprehensive grocery list makes grocery shopping a snap. [View a grocery list]

  • 5 dinners and sides cost less than $85 per week at the grocery store. You will notice substantial savings by sticking to a list!

  • A Relish! subscription is only $7 per month.

  • Monthly freezer menus are included in the subscription, plus much more
And they now have gluten-free menus!


Friday, October 23, 2009

One Peace At A Time


"Once your eyes are opened to what is going on in the world, they can't be unopened again." Turk Pipkin-filmmaker


Have you ever had an experience where your eyes (and heart) were opened in a way that told you there is just no going back? Well, that's what happened to me at a very inspiring evening recently.


Wednesday night, I went to the premiere of a powerful new documentary called One Peace At A Time. In the film, producer & director Turk Pipkin travels to 20 countries on 5 continents to tell stories of our messed up world, and best of all, how we can change it.


One Peace At A Time is...

A look at the possibility of providing basic rights to every child. The film features the insights of Nobel Peace laureates Muhammad Yunus and Stephen Chu, Willie Nelson and many others. Plus there's great music by Ben Harper, Bob Dylan, Jack Johnson, Cat Stevens, Explosions in the Sky and more.

In the film Turk asks, can we provide basic rights – water, nutrition, education, healthcare and a sustainable and peaceful environment – to every child on earth?

The solutions Pipkin chronicles include the model Indian orphanages of The Miracle Foundation, family planning initiatives with Thailand’s Mechai Viravaidya, Ethiopian water projects with A Glimmer of Hope, and Architecture for Humanity’s global design challenge for communities in need in the Himalayas, the Amazon and the slums of Nairobi.

Here's the film's trailer...



The biggest take away? Join a cause to become part of the solution. There's a plethora of problems, so just jump in and do something!


“Never doubt that a few caring individuals can change the world. For, indeed, that’s all that ever have.” -Margaret Mead


In so many cases, people in need really only desire two things: a little help to get started and the belief that someone cares (that someone can be you). After that, they can do the rest to take care of themselves.


If you're looking for a group or cause to help, here are some suggestions:


UCP Wheels For Humanity

My dear friend, Caroleen Feeney, is not only a supporter of the One Peace At A Time project, she's also a champion of Wheels For Humanity, an organization that provides wheelchairs to those in need. Since 1996, UCP Wheels has provided over 45,000 wheelchairs in 69 countries. Through Caroleen, I've met people at Wheels events whose lives have been transformed by this outstanding charity.


Turk Pipkin also created a very moving short film for Wheels that follows the journey of a wheelchair he donated. Click on the link to watch the faces of those receiving their new wheelchairs. Awesome. You can volunteer time, donate equipment that can be recycled and refurbished, donate Continental Airlines frequent flier miles for volunteers to deliver the chairs...or donate money.

http://www.ucpwfh.org/



Kiva

Kiva is the world's first person-to-person micro-lending website, empowering individuals to lend to unique entrepreneurs around the globe. This non-profit allows you to lend as little as $25 to a specific low-income entrepreneur across the globe.

You choose who to lend to - whether a baker in Afghanistan, a goat herder in Uganda, a farmer in Peru, a restaurateur in Cambodia, or a tailor in Iraq - and as they repay their loan, you get your money back. It's a powerful and sustainable way to empower someone right now to lift themselves out of poverty.

http://www.kiva.org/app.php



Play the FreeRice Game

This fun online game is a non-profit website run by the United Nations World Food Program. The FreeRice Game has two goals: provide education for everyone for free and help end world hunger by providing rice to hungry people for free.


When you play the game, rice is donated to those in need. Did you now that a child dies every 6 seconds from hungry related causes? Learn more at http://www.freerice.com/index.php


“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” – Gandhi

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Food Storage That's Good For You & Your Food


It's A Plasticky Situation


Properly saving left-over food will definitely cut down on waste in your food budget. But did you know that plastic containers can be dangerous to your health?


Here's what the Natural Resources Defense Council (NRDC) says about plastic containers:


Some baby bottles, water bottles, and other clear plastic containers are made of polycarbonate plastic, a polymer made with the chemical bisphenol A (BPA).


BPA is a hormone-disrupting chemical that in animal studies has been associated with reproductive abnormalities such as lower sperm counts, hormonal changes, enlarged prostate glands, abnormalities in the number of chromosomes in eggs, and pre-cancerous changes in the breast and prostate. BPA has also been associated with obesity and insulin resistance—a condition that commonly precedes the development of diabetes.


Tests have shown that more than 93 percent of the general population has some BPA in their bodies.

Yikes!


If you microwave plastic, the release of toxins is far worse! (Psst...when it says 'microwave safe' it means it won't hurt the container or the microwave if you nuke it. It's not talking about you or your family's health.) So if you do microwave your food, use glass or ceramic and remove any plastic lid.


Here's some helpful info from smart2begreen.com...


Converting to an eco-friendly, reusable food storage container will not only allow you to help reduce the amount of plastic that enters the waste stream but will also keep you and your family safe from the dangers associated with microwaving plastic. Here are some non-plastic, reusable glass container options for you to consider:

Glass containers are BPA free, freezable, microwaveable, dishwasher safe, and come equipped with plastic or glass lids.

Stainless-steel containers are made from high quality food grade steel and are BPA free, not freezable, dishwasher-safe, and reheatable only by stovetop.

Ceramic containers are BPA free, visually appealing, freezable, microwavable, dishwasher safe, and have a smooth non-porous surface for easy food release.

Polylactic acid (PLA) containers are made from plant-derived sustainable raw materials and are BPA free, freezable, not microwavable, dishwasher safe, and fully biodegradable and compostable.

Some solutions...

Pyrex offers excellent glass food storage containers equipped with plastic and glass lids.

Life Without Plastic offers numerous practical stainless-steel food storage containers.

Corningware offers a wide variety of ceramic cookware and food storage containers.


Here's a link to a handy pdf from the Natural Resources Defense Council on Chemicals in Plastic Bottles to help you determine what's safe for you and your family.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Faking It

photo courtesy of silkflowers.com

photo courtesy of silkflowers.com

photo courtesy of silkflowers.com

Fresh flowers instantly transform a space by bringing a sense of joy and beauty. However, there are times when faking it with silk flowers is a more prudent financial alternative.

The best way to fool the eye with fake flowers is to select flowers that have long-lasting blooms in real life.

Orchids, hydrangea, cherry blossoms all last for weeks at a time in nature. When we see them in silk arrangements, it seems reasonable that they're in an arrangement week after week.

Flowers that are known for blooms that last only a few days once cut, such as tulips, gerber daisies and roses, instantly make us suspicious. It makes folks want to reach out and touch the blooms to see if they are real...and when that happens, the jig is up.

The two other dead give aways?

1) Dusty build up. You might try taking them outside and dusting with a blow dryer set on low.

2) Blooms in colors unseen in nature. Aunt Ruby's aqua roses didn't fool anyone. Always choose realistic blooms.

Fresh is best, but when you need to fake it, these tips will help.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Low Cost Decorating Solutions


Many times I've given feng shui & design consultations for clients who are in such a decorating rut that they simply do nothing. Blank walls, bare floors and empty corners...all waiting for the 'perfect' item that is either too elusive or too pricey for today.


Unfortunately, by the time the item is found or the budget is ready, their tastes have changed or the item is no longer desired. In the meantime, they've been staring at an empty space.


If you're in the same situation, here are some low-cost solutions to carry you thru until the 'perfect' item is available.


The photo above shows a swath of fabric used to add pattern and texture to a room. How easy is that? You could also use a staple gun to adhere fabric to a canvas art frame found at an art supply store.




A stack of books can become a side table.


Stencil an inexpensive sisal or grass cloth rug to customize with your personal color, style and flair.


Hang plates as artwork. Plate hangers are inexpensive and easy to find at most hardware stores.

Don't wait for 'perfect' because there is no such thing! It's so much more fun to try new ideas, change & rearrange often, and use creativity to express yourself in your decor.

This is not the dress rehearsal. Lights up, show's on!

Or as John Lennon said, "Life is what happens when you're making other plans." Even decorating plans.

photos courtesy of Real Simple

Monday, October 19, 2009

How to make a Phot-O-Lantern

photo courtesy of bhg.com

photo courtesy of marthstewart.com

photo courtesy of marthstewart.com


My most memorable Halloween was a party a few years ago. When I arrived, I saw a group of pumpkins placed on the walkway to greet guests, all with faces of friends carved on them. To see my face on a carved pumpkin was such a delightful surprise, I will never forget it!


Here are instructions for you to make your own Phot-O-Lantern...


Adjusting the photo

Find a digital photo that is shot straight-on or very close to it. It should show some personality or have a recognizable expression. Use your computer's photo software to adjust for as high of a contrast as possible. You can upload a photo for free on obamicon.com to get a high-contrast photo. Print the photo in black & white on regular paper making the image to about 2/3 the size of the pumpkin.


Preparing the pumpkin
Cut out the top hole and gut the pumpkin. Trim the excess paper from the photo leaving a 1/2 inch border for the tape. Tape the photo smoothly to the pumpkin.


Transferring the photo onto the pumpkin
Using an ice pick (or the transfer tool if you have a carving kit), press the pointed tip through the edges of the contrast lines on the photo, spaced about a 1/8 to a 1/4 of an inch apart. Complex and thin designs might require the dots to be a little closer together. The tip of the pick should be pushed in just enough to go through the paper and the outer skin of the pumpkin, not all the way through the pumpkin.


Take your time. You're making guide lines for sawing. Before removing the photo, look it over carefully to make sure that all the lines have been transferred clearly. Once the photo is removed you'll see the outline marked on the face of the pumpkin via little dots. Save the photo in case you need to refer to it while carving.


Carving out the Transfer
Using a serrated knife (or a carving saw if you have the kit), push the tip of the blade into a template hole and saw through the design lines with short back-and-forth motions. Then, just play connect the dots.


Lighting your pumpkin

Add a tea light or battery powered light in the bottom, or cut a hole in the lower back to add a string of Christmas lights.


For more ideas...

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Where the heart is...


A house is made of walls and beams.

A home is built with love and dreams.



Creating your home as a monument to your success is so 2005.


Today's economy has re-prioritized many things. One of the best upsides of these changing times is the return of the notion that home is a place to find comfort, a place to recharge our personal batteries and a place to share life's special moments, rather than a place to impress the neighbors.


For years we've bought into the notion that, as far as homes go, bigger is better. From 1960 to 2007, average home sizes doubled. 2008 saw the first signs of decreased home sizes. Seldom used rooms and high energy costs are out. Coziness and connection with loved ones are in.


To me, the cycle is exemplified by the Aaron Spelling family. When magazines first covered the story of television mogul Spelling's 57,000 square foot home, suddenly having luxury spaces such as home theaters and gift wrapping rooms became de rigueur for middle class America. Just watch an afternoon of HGTV & DIY to count how many garages and basements you see transformed into home theaters. You can thank Mr. Spelling for that.


A decade or so later, when Mrs. Spelling put the house on the market, the veil was lifted to reveal that she had many rooms she never went into and rarely had guests visit. Oh, and she doesn't speak to 50% of her children. Big house, not a lot of happiness.


Over the years, I've been in countless houses that were built to impress. Room after beautiful room that dazzle guests...yet many contain spaces that are barely used and, many times, are only seen by visitors and housekeepers.


I spent last Thanksgiving with (distant) relatives in their newly renovated home that had been expanded from an already huge 8000 square to an astounding 25,000 square feet.


The living room looked like a hotel lobby with multiple seating areas. It was perfectly appointed and ready for a design magazine photo shoot. Impressive, yes. Cozy, comfortable and inviting, not so much.


The homeowners confided that while it is visually what they requested, emotionally it was not what they planned on.


The husband told me, "Other than our bedroom and bath, we only use the kitchen and the den! The den is the smallest room and it's where we feel closest to each other. It's the only space that's feels homey."


His wife put it another way. "We were so much closer as a family when the house was smaller. The kids would come home and share their day with us. Now the house is so big that I can't even hear when they come home! I miss so many little details of their day because we are literally too far away from each other in our own home. Since they're teenagers and ready to head off to college, I need every moment of time I can get!"


My brother Tom told me a similar story. At a recent open house for one of his real estate listings, he recognized a man touring the house as a neighbor who had just completed building an over-the-top McMansion down the street. The man said he was just looking, so to make conversation, Tom said, "It's a great layout, but only 2800 square feet, certainly not what you're used to." He was taken aback by the man's response:


"This is a real home. I built what I thought was my dream home and it's a nightmare. It's just a house. But this is a home. You can feel it. It's a place you want to come home to. My place is just plain big, but that's it. I made a huge mistake."


These folks found out the hard way that making the size of the house bigger will not make the love and happiness bigger. In fact, in their cases, it just made it easier to get lost inside.


A home is not about the building, it's about the life that's in it. It's our home base, our launch pad and our recharging station, all in one. Home should support our emotional, spiritual and physical needs, including our needs for both privacy and connection with others. So, yes, we need space for privacy, but connection is found in the common space. If we're lost in a maze of rooms so spacious that we can't hear each other, let alone find each other, the home loses its soul. And that's not impressing anyone.


By creating our surroundings for the highest good of all household members, we will indeed create a home, in the best sense of the word.



Saturday, October 17, 2009

50 Ways to Never Waste Food Again


Eliminating waste is a big part of tightening our budgets.


Did you know that we (Americans) waste 14 percent of our food purchases by throwing away leftovers and items that passed their expiration date?


I found a list of 50 Ways to Never Waste Food Again from Planet Green. Here it is...


Using Up Vegetables
1. Leftover mashed potatoes from dinner? Make them into patty shapes the next morning and cook them in butter for a pretty good "mock hash brown."

2. Don't toss those trimmed ends from onions, carrots, celery, or peppers. Store them in your freezer, and once you have a good amount saved up, add them to a large pot with a few cups of water and make homemade vegetable broth. This is also a great use for cabbage cores and corn cobs.

3. Don't toss broccoli stalks. They can be peeled and sliced, then prepared just like broccoli florets.

4. If you have to dice part of an onion or pepper for a recipe, don't waste the rest of it. Chop it up and store it in the freezer for the next time you need diced onion or peppers.

5. Roasted root vegetable leftovers can be turned into an easy, simple soup the next day. Add the veggies to a blender, along with enough broth or water to thin them enough to blend. Heat and enjoy.

6. If you're preparing squash, don't toss the seeds. Rinse and roast them in the oven, just like you would with pumpkin seeds. The taste is pretty much the same.

7. Celery leaves usually get tossed. There's a lot of good flavor in them; chop them up and add them to meatloaf, soups, or stews.

8. Use up tomatoes before they go bad by drying them in the oven. You can then store them in olive oil in the refrigerator (if you plan on using them within a week) or in the freezer.

9. Canning is always a good option. If you're doing tomatoes, you can use a boiling water bath. If you're canning any other type of veggie, a pressure canner is necessary for food safety.

10. Before it goes bad, blanch it and toss it in the freezer. This works for peas, beans, corn, carrots, broccoli, brussels sprouts, cauliflower, and leafy greens like spinach and kale.

11. Too many zucchini? Make zucchini bread or muffins. If you don't want to eat the bread now, bake it and freeze it, then defrost when you're ready to eat it.

12.Pickle it. Cucumbers are the first veggie most of us think of pickling, but in reality, just about any vegetable can be preserved through pickling.


Ideas for Cutting Down on Fruit Waste
13. Make smoothies with fruit before it goes bad. Berries, bananas, and melons are great candidates for this use-up idea.

14. Jam is really easy to make, and will keep for up to a year if you process the jars in a hot water bath. If you don't do the water processing part, you can keep the jam in the refrigerator for a month, which is a lot longer than the fruits would have lasted.

15. Dry your fruit and store it in the freezer or in airtight containers.

16. Make fruit leather.

17. Make a big fruit salad or "fruit kebabs" for your kids. For some reason, they seem to eat more fruit if it's in these "fancier" forms.

18. Use up the fall bounty of apples by making applesauce or apple butter.

19. Don't throw out those watermelon rinds! Pickled watermelon rind is a pretty tasty treat.

20. Make a fruit crumble out of almost any fruit you have on hand. Assemble and bake it now, or leave it unbaked and store it in the freezer for a quick dessert.


Putting Extra Grains to Good Use
21. Make croutons out of day-old bread.

22. Turn day-old bread into homemade bread crumbs.

23. Freeze leftover bread. This way you'll have day-old on hand whenever you need bread crumbs, or croutons rather than using fresh bread.

24. All of those little broken pieces of pasta in the bottom of the box? Collect them and mix with rice and veggies for a simple side dish.

25. A few tablespoons of leftover oatmeal isn't enough for a meal, but it is great sprinkled on top of yogurt.

26. Add chopped bread to a soup. It will dissolve and thicken the soup.

27. Made too many pancakes for breakfast? Put them in the freezer, then toss in the toaster for a fast, tasty weekday breakfast. Ditto waffles.

28. If you make plain white or brown rice with dinner, use leftovers for breakfast the next morning by adding them to oatmeal. This provides extra fiber and allows you to use up that rice.

29. If you our your kids don't like the bread crusts on your sandwiches, save these bits and pieces in the freezer to turn into bread crumbs later. Just throw the crusts into a food processor or coffee grinder to make them into crumbs. Season as you like.

30. If you have just a smidge of baby cereal left in the box, and it's not enough for a full meal, add it to your babies pureed fruit. It adds bulk and fiber, and keeps baby full longer.


Make the Most of Meat
31. Don't toss those chicken bones after you eat the chicken. Boil them to make chicken stock.

32. Ditto for bones from beef and pork.

33. The fat you trim from beef can be melted down and turned into suet for backyard birds.

34. Turn leftover bits of cooked chicken into chicken salad for sandwiches the next day.

35. Use leftover roast beef or pot roast in an easy vegetable beef soup the next day by adding veggies, water, and the cooking juices from the meat.


Use Dairy Before It Expires

36. If you've got a few chunks of different types of cheese sitting around after a party, make macaroni and cheese.

37. Eggs can be frozen. Break them, mix the yolks and whites together, and pour into an ice cube tray. Two frozen egg cubes is the equivalent of one large egg.

38. You can also freeze milk. Leave enough room in the container for expansion, and defrost in the refrigerator.

39. Use cream cheese in mashed potatoes or white sauces to give them thickness and tang.

40. Put Parmesan cheese into the food processor with day-old bread to make Parmesan bread crumbs. This is excellent as a coating for eggplant slices, pork, or chicken.


Herbs and How to Get the Most Out of Them

41. Chop herbs and add them to ice cube trays with just a little water. Drop whole cubes into the pan when a recipe calls for that type of herb.

42. You can also freeze herbs by placing them in plastic containers. Certain herbs, such as basil, will turn black, but the flavor will still be great.

43. Make pesto with extra basil or parsley.

44. Dry herbs by hanging them by their stems in a cool, dry location. Once they're dry, remove them from the stems and store them in airtight containers.


Don't Waste a Drop

45. Leftover coffee in the carafe? Freeze it in ice cube trays. Use the cubes for iced coffee or to cool down too-hot coffee without diluting it. You can do the same with leftover tea.

46. If there's a splash or two of wine left in the bottle, use it to de-glaze pans to add flavor to whatever you're cooking.

47. If you have pickle juice left in a jar, don't pour it down the drain. Use it to make a fresh batch of refrigerator pickles, or add it to salad dressings (or dirty martinis).

48. You can also freeze broth or stock in ice cube trays, and use a cube or two whenever you make a pan sauce or gravy.

49. If there's just a bit of honey left in the bottom of the jar, add a squeeze or two of lemon juice and swish it around. The lemon juice will loosen up the honey, and you have the perfect addition to a cup of tea.


Finally....

50. If you can't think of any way to use that food in the kitchen, compost it. Everything except for meat and dairy will work in a compost pile, and at least your extra food can be used for something useful. Such as growing more food!